Here we share answers and background — about the idea behind Don't Guess, how the app works, and how it can be used in everyday life.

Don't Guess is not a guide and not a tool for evaluating relationships. The app was born from the idea of capturing perception before it gets lost in everyday life. Not to be right or to force conversations, but to make visible what often remains unspoken.

Green and red marbles let you capture impressions from everyday life — without having to explain or discuss them right away. Your shared Date creates space for conversations later, when both of you are ready. Don't Guess deliberately focuses on a calm rhythm rather than constant interaction.

While many couple apps rely on games, tasks, or ratings, Don't Guess deliberately does without to-dos, scores, and optimization. Instead, the app creates a calm space to capture perception and start a conversation about it — without pressure, without force, and without a performance mindset.

Trust is the foundation of Don't Guess. Personal content is end-to-end encrypted and visible only to the people involved. We handle data transparently and clearly explain what is stored — and what is not.

Not every question can be answered in advance. If something remains open, doesn't feel right, or you'd like to share a thought with us, feel free to reach out. Sometimes clarity begins with a message.
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