Live your relationship consciously

Consciously shaping your relationship

More ease.
More closeness.
More us.

Making visible what would otherwise fade away.

The app couples truly need

Don’t Guess – Less guessing. More clarity.

Don’t Guess accompanies you in your everyday life as a couple – and strengthens the way you connect. Often, the small things get lost along the way:
gestures that show warmth, moments of appreciation, or thoughts you’d rather keep to yourself. Don’t Guess makes these invisible moments visible – gently, simply, and without pressure. The app reminds you to capture meaningful moments and gives you space to share even the delicate ones. From short digital impulses, real conversations emerge – closeness, understanding, and rituals that strengthen your relationship.

Don’t Guess isn’t another task on your list. It’s an invitation to be more mindful with each other – day by day, week by week.

Show
appreciation

Green marbles for meaningful moments.

A hug, a loving word, a small act of help — so many things touch us. We feel these little gestures, but because they seem so natural, they often go unspoken. Don’t Guess makes these moments visible and gives them the value they deserve.

Address conflicts
with care

Red marbles instead of unspoken frustration.

Small tensions or hurt feelings don’t disappear just because you keep them to yourself. Often, they build up and break out impulsively later on. Don’t Guess gives you the space to express conflict with respect — clearly, without blame, and without escalation.

Grow together

A weekly check-in filled with care, not pressure.

In everyday life, there’s often little space to pause and truly see what you share. Don’t Guess gives you a moment of reflection: you look back on your week, notice what strengthens you, where you can support each other — and understand what may have hurt your partner.

Be pioneers of a new relationship culture

Don’t Guess has just launched.

You’re among the first to use the app in everyday life and secure early access from the very beginning.

Experience how small moments can change your relationship, and help us improve Don’t Guess step by step with your feedback.

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The app uses end-to-end encryption — meaning all your data stays entirely within your shared space, and no one else can access it.
Your trust matters deeply to us.

How Don’t Guess
can transform your relationship

Fewer misunderstandings

Through clear, mindful, and appreciative communication.

More awareness in everyday life

You pause, notice each other, and make mindfulness a natural part of your relationship.

Deeper understanding

For each other’s needs and feelings — without guessing games.

Resolving conflicts early

Speak things out before they turn into a burden.

More appreciation

Making small, seemingly insignificant gestures visible.

A new culture of connection

Encouraging open, respectful conversations — and learning to understand each other better.

Grow together

Building closeness and trust step by step.

A protected space

Your thoughts and feelings stay with you — private, confidential, and safe.

Try it out for yourselves

This is how Don't Guess works

Capture your moments

Green marbles stand for everything that feels good — a hug, a small act of kindness, or a loving word. Whenever you experience something positive with your partner, pause for a moment, capture it consciously, and share it with them.Red marbles are for the challenging moments that stay on your mind and that you want to talk about — to address them mindfully and reconnect with each other.

Weekly Couple Check-In

Your dedicated moment for intentional closeness. Once a week, you take time for each other — whether during a dinner date, on the couch, or while taking a walk. You choose the moment; Don’t Guess provides the prompts. In this way, a simple decision becomes a ritual that strengthens your relationship.

Communicate with intention

Intentional communication means honestly expressing what felt good — and also what didn’t. Instead of guessing or leaving things unsaid, you speak openly with each other. This creates understanding, trust, and the feeling of truly being seen and heard — and that’s exactly what strengthens your love.

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