Capture your moments as a couple.
See what truly moves you — and strengthen your relationship.

Don’t guess. Notice.
Real closeness — in just a few minutes a day.

The app couples truly need

Don’t Guess – Less guessing. More clarity.

In everyday life, it’s often the small things that get lost:
gestures of closeness, moments of gratitude, or thoughts that remain unspoken.

Don’t Guess helps you capture these moments — simply and without pressure.

Positive and difficult moments become visible.
From small digital impulses, real conversations, deeper understanding, and new closeness begin to grow.

Don’t Guess is not another to-do.
It’s an invitation to live your relationship more consciously — day by day, week by week.

Show
appreciation

Show appreciation

Green marbles for the beautiful moments of everyday life. Capture the meaningful moments in your relationship and give each other green marbles for the things that touched you. This makes appreciation visible in everyday life.

Address conflicts
with care

Adress conflicts with care

Red marbles instead of unspoken blame. If something felt off, capture it with a red marble. This helps you revisit difficult moments later — gently and without blame.

Grow together

Grow together

A weekly Date with love, not pressure. So many small moments build up throughout the week. During your weekly Date, you talk through them and understand your relationship better — step by step.

Be pioneers of a new relationship culture

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Don’t Guess is new as an app — but the idea behind it has already proven itself in real life for more than ten years.

You are among the first couples to bring this idea into everyday life in a digital way.

See for yourselves how small moments can change your relationship — and help us continue to improve Don’t Guess step by step with your feedback.

The app uses end-to-end encryption — meaning all your data stays entirely within your shared space, and no one else can access it.
Your trust matters deeply to us.

How Don’t Guess
can transform your relationship

Fewer misunderstandings

Through clear, mindful, and appreciative communication.

More awareness in everyday life

You pause, notice each other, and make mindfulness a natural part of your relationship.

Deeper understanding

For each other’s needs and feelings — without guessing games.

Resolving conflicts early

Speak things out before they turn into a burden.

More appreciation

Making small, seemingly insignificant gestures visible.

A new culture of connection

Encouraging open, respectful conversations — and learning to understand each other better.

Grow together

Building closeness and trust step by step.

A protected space

Your thoughts and feelings stay with you — private, confidential, and safe.

This is how Don't Guess works

Capture your moments

Green marbles stand for everything that feels good — a hug, a small act of kindness, or a loving word. Whenever you experience something positive with your partner, pause for a moment, capture it consciously, and share it with them.Red marbles are for the challenging moments that stay on your mind and that you want to talk about — to address them mindfully and reconnect with each other.

Your weekly Date

Your dedicated moment for intentional closeness. Once a week, you take time for each other — whether during your Date, on the couch, or while taking a walk. on the couch, or while taking a walk. You choose the moment; Don’t Guess provides the prompts. In this way, a simple decision becomes a ritual that strengthens your relationship.

Communicate with intention

Intentional communication means honestly expressing what felt good — and also what didn’t. Instead of guessing or leaving things unsaid, you speak openly with each other. This creates understanding, trust, and the feeling of truly being seen and heard — and that’s exactly what strengthens your love.

We’re excited to have you!

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